SM inzira yakakosha muhupenyu hwepabonde uye ine nzira dzakasiyana dzekutamba.Sadism uye Masochism inomiririra hunhu hwakasiyana hwemapato ese ari maviri.Saka pane musiyano mukuru pakati penzira dzeSadism uye Masochism muhupenyu hwepabonde.Saka kune vatsva veSadism, ungatanga sei kudzidzisa Masochism?Zvino ngatikudzidzisei nzira yekudzidzisa Masochism.
Basa rinonyadzisa iro Sadism rinopa Masochism harina kutariswa pamishoni, asi pakunyadziswa.Basa rekunyadzisa nderekurwisa kunyadziswa kwemukati kusvika pamwero mukuru, uye kune vatsva vasina ruzivo munharaunda iyi, mhedzisiro yacho yakakosha.
Mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu ebasa, unogona kushandisa mamwe mazwi anonyadzisira uye ekutuka mumutauro, asi iwe unofanirwa kuterera kune yakakodzera mutauro.Vulgarity hazvirevi kutuka.Unogona kushandisa mamwe mazwi anonyadzisa anonangana nenhengo dzepabonde.Panyaya yekufamba, Masochism inogona kuitwa kuita mamwe maitiro asina kumbobvira aitwa.Semuenzaniso, unogona kuburitsa nhengo dzako dzakavandika wodziratidza zvizere.Kana kuita mamwe maK9 postures, uye iwe unogona zvakare kusungira Masochism mune akasiyana siyana.Ehe, maitiro ako anofanira kunge akanaka, zvikasadaro achaita seasinganzwisisike.
Panguva yekudzidzira, muviri haufaniri kunge usina kupfeka zvachose.Kupfekenura zvine hunyanzvi uye nehunyanzvi kuchamutsa Masochism uye kugadzira imwe pfungwa yekunyara.Semuenzaniso, shandisa chigero kucheka zvipfeko zvemukati zvakavhurika.Zvechokwadi, unofanira kuunza imwe pair.
Isa chipfeko chemukati chisina kupfeka mumuromo maMasochism.Kana uine bhora remuromo, unogona kusvetuka danho iri.Mukuita izvi, Masochism inofanirwa kuteerera mirairo uye zvinodiwa zveSadism.Unogona kuramba zvisingatenderwi, asi hazvisi zvose zvinofanira kurambwa.Mukuita kwekupa mirairo, Sadism inofanirwa kuremekedza Masochism uye usaite zvakanyanyisa.
Mukuita kweMasochism kuita mirairo, kana Masochism ikakanganisa, Sadism inogona kupa chirango chakati, sekuti yakawanda sei SP inogona kurangwa nekuda kwekukanganisa.Pakuranga, Masochism ngaaverenge.
Nekuti mutambo wenyadzi unonyanyo kunanga psychology, haugone kuridzwa kakawanda, zvikasadaro kana Masochism yangogadziriswa, inoderedza kunakidzwa.Zvakanakisisa kuiridza kamwe chete pamwedzi kana kupfuura, uye pashure pechirango chinonyadzisa, nhamburiko dzinofanira kuitwa kuti dzidzokere kunguva dzose.Rambai muhukama uye rambai pabonde muchivande.
Kana iwe ukanyatso kudzora chishuwo chepabonde uye hunhu hwepabonde hweMasochism, chirango chinonyadzisa chinotevera chichava chisingakanganwike!
Kune Masochism anofarira kunyadziswa, unogona kuti "Isa bhegi rangu pachiuno chako, ritore, pfugama uye ukambaire, simudza chiuno chako zvishoma";nokuda kweMasochism anoda chirango, unogona kuti “Isa bhegi rangu pamusoro pemusoro wako, pfugama uye kukambaira, chengeta maoko ako akasimudzwa kumusoro sezvinobvira uye usaazunungusa.”
Tsanangudzo dzakajeka zvechokwadi dzinonakidza kuMasochism pane mirairo yakapusa.Ipapo unofanira kudzidza kudzora mhepo.Mamiriro ekunze akakosha kwazvo mukudzidziswa, asi maSadism mazhinji anowanzo kufuratira iyi pfungwa.Sei mahotera erudo achinyanya kufarirwa kupfuura mahotera enguva dzose?Nekuda kwekuti mamiriro ekunze akanaka.
Pane zvinhu zvitatu zvakakosha kugadzira mhepo: zvipfeko, nharaunda uye rhythm.
Hazvina maturo kutaura pamusoro pezvipfeko, munhu wose ane maitiro ake aanofarira.Kupfeka zvine chekuita nekusarara, zvipfeko zvepurasitiki, zvipfeko zvekatsi, nezvimwe zvinogona kubvumira mapato ese ari maviri kugamuchira kurudziro uye kupinda muhurumende nekukurumidza.
Nezvezvakatipoteredza, vamwe vanhu vanoda ascetic maitiro, vamwe vanhu vanofarira rima dhizaini, uye vamwe vanhu vanofarira inodziya uye inotonhorera nharaunda.Inosiyana pamunhu nemunhu, asi haifanire kunge iri nharaunda inofinha.
Chinhu chekupedzisira uye chinonyanya kukosha ndechekudzora rhythm.Sadism inofanira kuziva nguva yekuita chii uye kuti rhythm inofanira kukurumidza kana kunonoka kuburikidza nekunzwisisa kweMasochism.
Kudzidziswa kwese kunobva pakuvimbana pakati pemapato maviri aya.Kana Sadism isingavimbe neMasochism, haizokwanisi kuburitsa mirairo zvakasununguka.Kana Masochism asingavimbi neSadism, saka zvisinei kuti anorayira sei uye anotonga, haazowani mufaro, nokuti haakwanisi kuteerera kubva pasi pemwoyo wake uye anozvipa zvachose.Kuvimba ndiyo hwaro uye kiyi yekuona kana Sadism neMasochism inogona kugara pamwechete kwenguva yakareba.
Nguva yekutumira: Jan-12-2024
